Hi Thriver. , I have read all your posts and I hope you don't mind my posting but your still focusing on what your W says and does Again I hope you don't mind biut I have made a list below of what my EXW says almost weekly , shes gone 8 months now
1. Our M was almost all good 2. She loves me and family more than anything 3. She wants to come home but can't after what's happened ( she is denying OM and our councelllor belives her) 4 I'm her best friend and I'm the only person in the world she trusts 5. She thinks I'm a fantastic dad 6 she tells her sister I'm not the problem but she's Lost 7 EXW thinks she's depressed 8. EXW posts on Facebook daily how sad her life is and Hows she's lost everything g 9 EXW talks of suicide 10. EXW cannot come into family home without crying
Thriver , I could read anything I wanted into the above but at the end of the day it's just words It could mean she wants to come home, it could mean she no longer wants OM. It could mean she's mentally unbalanced
My point is at some point you have to stop trying to analyse your Ws words and carry on with your life What you W says or does means nothing UNTIL she wants to discuss R with you
I'm not a vet and far from it but I see myself in your posts Your searching for hope anywhere you can and while that's understandable, it gets you no where
Let W go , get on with your life while DBIng Don't let what' W says affect your mood and if it does put it out of your mind asap
