Z, I agree. It's a bit like home improvements. You think - Oh, we'll just take down that wall and decorate in here. Sounds simple, but the slog of actually doing it is tough! I think that's why it can grate sometimes when people say - you need to GAL, have PMA, detach and so on. Because the process of doing these 'simple' things takes a huge amount of work and isn't easy.

Take care! xx


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