WW/WAW Looking for advice from the pros (Sandi)

[Hurt06]

I agree with Pigpen.....stay in the house and MBR.....if she wants to leave....you can't stop her. I chose to stay in my house and fight the battle from the MBR. Wife has moved into kids room. Working on GAL and focusing on kids. Doing my best to make 180s. What can I say but this really S@#$#. W is totally checked out but cannot support herself as she was a SAHM.... so she is stuck....I refuse to file for D. I will not do that to my kids......will she file for D....maybe after OM's D is final.

As far as contacting OM's wife.....well....I didn't have to contact her as she contacted me and was instrumental in uncovering the truth which is still lied about to this day. The OM has left his wife and there D will be final in another month. He is still apparently pursuing my W. Is my W still seeing this guy?......I have no idea but her current behavior says she is.....or she truly hates me for some reason.