Heavy, nobody knows better than you how important it is to avoid the drama. Went to my divorce support group tonight, and one woman there... 60 years old, mind you, married 42 years when her husband dropped the bomb and took up with a woman their children's age, God bless her... spoke of how she felt God calling her to surrender the whole thing to Him this week. I will be meditating and praying about that... maybe trying to get back to the better place I was in a week ago. Surrender is so hard... but really, it's all we can do.
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19