Originally Posted By: Prowl
My biggest issue right now is my house. In the next month or so I will have to make a decision to let my house go into forclosure which will force my family out and will definately push the divorce forward as there will be nothing left to fight over. Or file a CH 13, that I will have to pay for, that will keep my family in our home but I will be paying for us to get caught up but will delay the divorce as we will be trying to save the house.

I have a difficult time paying for my wife to remain comfortable in our home an carry on with her A from inside the walls that I built. And all the while paying for it.



I'm not an expert here Prowl, but maybe you want to think about it this way.

If you stay in your hour you're not paying for your wife to remain comfortable in your home and carry on with her A. You're paying to keep your family in your home and delay your D.

You can pay for your house with either mindset, or as you said, not pay and force your family out and lead to a D.

Do you want a D? Or do you want to keep your family in your home and delay the D?

It doesn't sound like your house has anything to do with it.

Last edited by PigPen; 07/01/15 12:06 AM.

M 39 W 36
T5 M3
BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day
Served 9/15
D finalized 6/17