I spoke to my atty & I really can't prevent him from having the statements delivered to him but I did request copies to be sent to me too since the accts are completely joint he can do whatever he wants really as I can too. The bank has a separation/divorce department that deals with this stuff. (who knew?)
My atty kinda seemed miffed when I told her that I didn't feel like she was doing her job. She said - sorry you feel that way but you've got it made. She said she's been trying to keep stuff away from me so that I don't stress. I have the boys, the house, the van, all the stuff inside the house and able to run the household without a glitch - TIL NOW!! H continues to do what he wants no matter what I, his children or what his atty says. Hmmm?
While I was in her ofc she called H atty. His atty is having problems getting my H to follow the court order. His atty has had to go through my H cousin (the influential lawyer/judge) cuz my H isn't returning calls.
H must figure that if he withdraws the D, he can control the $,live with his mistress and visit our kids like he's this happy in control of his life guy with no consequences.
Anyway, we'll see what happens tomorrow. H pychk may not come in to the joint acct so I have to be prepared to give him the list of bills - and request money til the divorce goes through. I really didn't want him to have the acct #'s so atty said I should just show him the bills and tell him to give me the money. UGH!!!!!
BTW job - I like the text idea. Sounds civil but H is an alien so he won't care what I say - he'll turn it around. Remember - he thinks he's the victim.
