What is that you ultimately want? I see you flip flopping between wanting to save the M and not. I get it that you want her to stop with the OM, but right now it doesn't seem like she's going to.
If you want to save your M, then I think you need to put in some VERY strong boundaries with your W.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.