I'm really confused. I think it would be good to expose the affair to the OMs wife as a way of ending it. I am on a few forums and on another they say to expose it as soon as possible. That once it's exposed she will hopefully be able to come out of the "fog".
I don't have a lot of evidence but I want to ask the OMs wife if he went out of town the same time my W did and to ask her if she knows about all the time he's been spending at my house...
BD Oct 2014 S Dec 2014 D filed Feb 20, 2015 D on hold as money ran out for attorneys and the marital home's future is up in the air