I'm having some trouble with the focusing on my goals today -
#1 - Stay "Dark"
Ugh, So I've been doing well, but the last 10 minutes I'm fighting the urge to send a single Text Message. A simple "Hi, How's your day?" message to spark a conversation. I can't believe how tough this is, I really want to reconnect, but its too soon. Nothing sent or done yet. I'm resisting the urge to look at her Facebook Page as well.
#2 - Polite & Confident
I'm actually doing ok with this today, I'm focused at work and "knowing" I can do it. "Fake it till you become it" ~Amy Cuddy is my motto today.
#3 - Distance
Goes along the line with #1, but all I think about is her and how I want to know what she is thinking or feeling. There is nothing I can do or say to get this answer from her.
#4 - No Fighting
I have to tell myself that Staying "Dark" and keeping Distance will not allow a fight to happen.
Sorry everyone, I'm just trying to stay focused. Figured if I posted here I won't break my goals. Also thinking about scheduling my next DB coaching session, should I wait until our next marriage counseling session or before?
