I'm so pleased to read about how things are going. I think of your sitch to give me a little hope in my presently hopeless-seeming sitch. I know you have truly been through the wringer and your sitch has been longer than mine.
WRT the intimacy. It's clearly a big area for you guys and it's great that you've agreed neither of you wants a sexless M. I've also read that sexual intimacy can take a little while to return and maybe it's good to just take your time there and let intimacy generally rebuild. Talk about it some more, share your feelings about what has happened, the flashbacks you feel and so on....
If you guys carry on as you are, I bet there will be a point where you just feel ready to ML. I think the honesty is so important and I think you're doing so well facing these important things together.
I'm rooting for you guys!! T xx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
