On cadets homework post there it a link to the resources. Use that link and read up on the Stockdale Paradox. It helped me immensely as I, just like you felt impatient and wanted everything back the way it was.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
