Aj8 - We've all been there. The movie replaying in your head of all the things you would and could have done differently. Here's the thing:
IT. ISNT. OVER.
Sitting around and wallowing won't help anything though. As PP said, allow yourself some time to feel your feelings, but then pick yourself up and DO something. It doesn't have to be anything major. But cut the lawn, go buy groceries, talk a walk...anything. You'll find that there might be a second you don't think about your W. Then two, then five. Then maybe a whole minute. And so on.
But that doesn't just HAPPEN. You have to make it happen.
I know it doesn't make sense. I know it's counter intuitive. But the only way you have a chance to get her back is to let her go. Give her the space and time to find herself. And then USE that time to become the BEST Aj8 possible.
The only way that she will come back is if she truly believes that your lives together will be different. How are you going to PROVE that?
