New marriage already over -please help me :/

[PigPen]

Its going to suck for a long while Aj8. Not trying to bring you down but you've got to brace yourself for this. I spent the morning in tears today and my W left six months ago! That's a lot of crying.

You've got to look at this like the marathon of your life, the hero's journey of sorts. You're just starting out and unfortunately it may get worse. Start marshaling every positive resource you have and know that you're going to need them.

When my W left I told myself I had to consider it like I had just gotten diagnosed with cancer. It was going to be the fight of my life either way, and keeping every other aspect of my life as healthy as possible was my survival method.

Let the tears flow man, they're good for you and you've just gotten a huge wound to your heart and life. Let them flow, but then get moving.