Thank you for these rules, I am learning a lot here. I was struggling with how often to text/call H during the day. If I text him about the kids- for example my son had a dr appointment today- he usually ignores it. If I text him that his new shoes were delivered I get an immediate response. So I am going to stop texting him, unless it is something logistical and urgent, no friendly texts until he starts. This is heartbreaking. That is the biggest one for me, I am going to reread them though.
