hold on! - 10

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Thanks RAI & Jelly. I do agree with this and did just ignore the text barrage.

but on to another today and to me this contradicts yesterday's with W.

an old friend of ours who we haven't seen in probably 5 years is in a nearby city and is having trouble. W seems to be drawn to these wounded souls and wants to save people (and to me that is how she started with OM). She was packing up and going to either bring friend to our house, or stay in the city with him at his hotel. Red flags went off in my head and I questioned this (not saying no, but questioning to find out more info).

I have not talked to him in years, but it seems that W does and has been recently often.

By questioning this, she is accusing me of not standing up for friends, hoping I will never need a friend, saying that her family has always showed me love (I responded to this one in agreement). She says now she knows who I am.

I did say to her that when she hides and acts secretively, I don't know what to trust. I know nothing about this so I questioned it.

she is tired of my word games as she put it - i corrected her when she said that I accused her of making it up. I told her that I questioned it.

angry blargidy blar after that. (marriage/relationship, accuse/question) OOPS learned too much about words here I guess.

I am not purposely trying to push buttons with her, I am just trying to be as clear as possible what I mean so there is no misunderstanding. I don't think she sees it that way.

I think this contradicts yesterdays nonsense because now she sees this other wounded soul that needs an ear or help, but I was berated yesterday for talking to my family - nice. guess she tends to care for others more than her own family.