I am confused today. I am doing much better at detaching. Only now she accuses me of being cold/curt and so she is withdrawing completely. Making plans to be out of the house every evening when I get home and staying in her bedroom when we are in the house together. Have I swung the pendulum too far in the other direction?

How much of this could simply be that by withdrawing to her room she gets more time to focus on EAs online?

Signed up for phone coaching. Starts today at 1pm. Hopefully they can provide some clarity.

Me: 39
W: 38
T-18yrs M-13yrs
2 Girls: 10 & 3
EA BD 5/24/15
Separate Bedrooms 6/12/15
PA BD 7/3/15
Separate Residence 8/8/15