WAS or what (2)

[roist]

Thanks C. It is clear.

I agree with boundary and will enforce it if needed. But all I know is that there is inappropriate behaviour ........

I had not planned on starting the war. I had given myself until we got back from visiting my brother inthe states (end Aug) and then reevaluate.

I think I can talk to W without reacting. I think my wife will state that they are just friends, that everyone is falsely putting their issues on him and that he us not the reason for any issues we have. She may even believe that.

I will state what is inappropriate, I will not accuse relationship, but will state boundary .

Thanks C. Any other comments from anyone??