I keep reading that I need to listen to what she is asking me to do. Stop calling, give her space, man up... She's said all of these things to me. It's difficult when you aren't very patient and all you want is your family back together again.
So why do you think that pursuit is going to get your family back? DB'ing is counter intuitive.
Although I say to believe none of what she says, I would give her what she wants. STOP CALLING and GIVE SPACE.
Have you read the 37 rules and are you using them?
