Working on it mate. Trying to get the L to persuade her to go back to mediation. That way we save money and S9 gets counseling. I really can't see the negative in that arrangement.

I know she was angry when I objected to txting the OM. Perhaps that anger has subsided a bit. We shall see.

Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.