I appreciate your advice and opinion. I am not going to rationalize my actions or provide justification for same.
It has been a week since I have been back at this board. You are saying that by my listening and helping my W I am doing nothing to improve my situation or gain respect or attraction in her eyes.
I am not trying to say your opinion is wrong, but if one of our issues was lack of communication and then W starts communicating isn't that a positive? Or is the view that until she provides complete transparency it is all BS?
It seems that some threads say that you should be the best H you can be that only a fool would leave while others say you should detach.
Am I not doing worse by not communicating with her? If I turn my back on this doesn't that prove that she is right?
I am not trying to start a fight or tell someone they are wrong. It is just after reading a lot of these posts it seems like people are on both sides. It really makes my head hurt.
