Yup, it stands for Rising Above It - II

[Joe46]

RAI, for me letting go off the anger was me seeing the wrongs I did in our marriage. I than made a list with some notes. I sat W down a few months ago and told her how very sorry I was for my wrongs and asked her to forgive me. Than I started working on myself and praying for God to help me. I also prayed for WW. I began to try to forgive her. Each day it got easier. It took me time and lots of little things keeping busy. Am I happy about what my W has done? NO. But I forgive her. Do I want to get back together with her? NOT NOW. Down the road? Maybe. If that is God's plan. She would have a TON of work to do herself before I would reconcile. A few boundaries of mine, HONESTY and FAITHFULNESS. Right now, I don't feel she would be willing to change those things. But maybe one day! But I am not sitting around waiting. I have alot of things in my life to do! And so do you! Let go of the anger and go do something that makes you feel good for yourself!