Thanks NDY... My W has been telling me for months that we need to start over as friends and build a new foundation. Heck she's been saying that since before the BD. I don't know if that is just part of the WAW script but I keep reading that I need to listen to what she is asking me to do. Stop calling, give her space, man up... She's said all of these things to me. It's difficult when you aren't very patient and all you want is your family back together again.
BD Oct 2014 S Dec 2014 D filed Feb 20, 2015 D on hold as money ran out for attorneys and the marital home's future is up in the air