H now often says where he is going/when he will return. Now more then he did immediately following BD 3/31/15. (Who knows if it is the truth, but he sometimes seems to understand that it is the social norm to give such info. when you leave the house.)
Last night he left at 10pm and returned at 11:15pm w/out saying anything when he left. He sleeps in downstairs BR.
Should I also sometimes leave without saying anything. It kind of feels like playing games or doing the whole tit for tat thing? I would never normally behave this way. Some advise this as a 180/adding mystery, I know. Thoughts?
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
