Wow, Cali! Great job with the OM2 boundary/discussion. Wonderful show sharing your story with your church... the fact that you had to stay over meeting with people is a sure sign that they loved your presentation!

Originally Posted By: CaliGuy

We talked about sex, about how she in fact does want it, how we both see its important .. a bit of heavy petting and playful ness. No ML but ... the fact we talked about it openly .. it was no longer taboo ... HUGE

I am at peace currently with things, I feel by telling her what I needed, and seeing that she was in fact not only understanding .. but receptive and wanting to make an effort .. again .. HUGE. I left for work and she even laid a pretty big hug and kiss on me asking "is this better?" I told her it was perfect.


This is HUGE!

It's all coming together as it should Cali. You are doing a great job of not rushing it, while still being confident and assertive... you sexy devil, you! wink

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I am at peace currently with things


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W shared that she had slept better than she has in years.


^^^ Both very good signs, Cali. Of course bed time together doesn't hurt either!
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I'm VERY excited for you guys. Stay on track my friend, you're doing great!


M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

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