I'm sorry if I keep the updates coming but it gives me strength. The W sent me another text telling me she needed me to call her. I called her and we talk about her dropping the kids off with me this evening so I can take them to a baseball game. I kept straight to the subject.
When I sent her the text asking her if she would let me know if she could bring the kids, I told her I was meeting friends at the ballpark. When we were talking she asked me "Are you meeting a woman tonight"? I said "No, my best friend from HS is in town and him and his family are meeting me there." She said "oh, ok... I just think it would be good for the boys to see you hang out with another woman so they aren't mad at me all the time." My S11 gets really mad when she talks to other men or has them at our house.
I then told her thank you and said I appreciate her bringing the boys over. She then said "It's weird that we're actually having normal conversations" I said "Yup, thanks again" and hung up.
Small baby steps... I keep getting told this is a marathon and not a sprint. I want to be home so badly with my family and it seems like such an impossible task. Please pray for me.
BD Oct 2014 S Dec 2014 D filed Feb 20, 2015 D on hold as money ran out for attorneys and the marital home's future is up in the air
