I guess I was not clear. WW was present - for precisely that reason. Except for saying how much we both love the children and hugging S3 and D6, she was pretty silent throughout, though. She spoke with the kids after our pow-wow as well.
Honestly, although she was present, I don't think she sees that her choices affect anyone. I know I am mind-reading, but looking at her face, I think there is a serious disconnect. It is so bizarre. I don't think she has an iota of guilt or shame over what she is doing. I think she is sad over what is happening, but does not see herself as the driver here - just another victim of the fallout of D. It is like someone who murdered his parents grieving over becoming an orphan.
As usual, there were no comments from her after the conversation. I would have settled for anger towards me, or sadness, or anything. She just slinked back to wherever it is she is now sleeping in our house - I think D9s bed, while she is away at camp. I think there is a black lump of coal where her soul used to be.
I know there is a lot of anger/venom oozing out of my words, but I am still angry. Working on that. I also met with L this afternoon - which did not help much. I am very fearful, still, of what the future holds.
