Originally Posted By: RobS99
Well, I broke #1, I had to text her about DD's soccer practice and I wouldn't be able to make it. She responded and said she'd like to go grocery shopping after they go to bed.

There's only so dark you can go when kids are involved. Don't beat yourself up about it.

Originally Posted By: RobS99

I miss her so much and the sexual desires are insane. I want to break down, cry and tell her how much I love her and want to be with her. I hate feeling backed into an emotional corner, but I'm trying to keep my chin up and not fall into a depressive state.


It's certainly tough. But you know what, a huge part of your life is cut away. It's ok to grieve for it. Just recognize that it's an emotional feeling, and it will pass. And over time, the grief will be less intense, shorter, and less frequent. The key is not to act toward your W while you're in that state. Only let her see you at your best!

There are 2 TED talks recommended to me on happiness that were both GREAT. One is by Amy Cuddy and the other is by Shawn Achor. Watch them and live them.


At BD - Me: 33 Her: 33; M: 10 T: 15; D: 6 and 3

BD: 3/25/15
S: 4/20/15
D: 11/9/15