Ok folks. Been validating my wee heart out tonight.

Before I start. I'm paraphrasing. These are not verbatim the words used. Need to watch the watchers and all that.

So txt WW the list of stuff S9 wants for his birthday. She thanks me for that. Now before I go on this in itself is odd because she would normally get this list before me AND she knew he made a list from my earlier email. I didn't contact her till after 9pm so plenty of time to get S9 to make the list for her.

Anyway she thanked me and offered to bring S9 here from MIL's tomorrow. I thanked her for the nice gesture but that would eat into my time with him and it's not fair that she should leave MIL's early for my sake. She said its ok and will have him home on time.

I said thanks, really thoughtful.

So far slightly better communication. But that's just today. Well ok Saturday as well.


Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.