Yeah, I know Matt. The coaches are more focused, I think, on attracting our spouses back than they are concerned with our PMA. At least that's how I saw things after working with mine. She pretty much helped me develop a strategy to achieve a goal, and that's reconciliation. I wouldn't say coaching conflicts with the advice on this board, but it's more targeted toward that end. Here, the focus is on taking care of ourselves as a critical component of either re-attracting our spouses or setting ourselves up for a healthy and happy life without them. My coach didn't really let me imagine a future that didn't include reconciliation. And perhaps I think about that goal a bit too much, and it does mess with my PMA.
When is your first session with your coach? I'm eager to hear how things go for you...
I get that. And that's really what I need in my life now. I think I've proven to myself that I can be happy and successful alone. But I don't know how to take that next step to start to ¿lure? my wife back to me.
On your side, I'm seeing that you've got all the steps and plans. But have you proven to yourself that you don't need HER yet?
