My coach has told me repeatedly that the single most important factor determining success is giving things time to work. Not jumping around, being inconsistent, changing messages at the first sign of mistake or that things aren't working.
I'm reading this and rereading this and rereading this over and over and over today. For some reason I want to just jump out of my skin this morning and DO SOMETHING. I want to write a handwritten letter, I want to make a phone call, I want to send an email, I want to make a crafty FB post that hopefully she'll see, I want to write a frickin poem. Anything.
But, I'm going to sit the "censored" down and be still and let this all play out without my interference. I'm not going to spend all day on this forum, nor obsess about my sitch. I'm going to work, create, meditate, workout, and communicate with people I love.
It looks like all hell broke loose in the marriage world over the weekend with all the newcomers around here. Hang on folks, my heart goes out to each and every one of you.
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
