Interestingly I am no longer confused about how to handle WW's desire for closeness. This is because just as quick as she turned on the "I want a husband", she has flipped and wants little to do with me now.

How it is today isn't how it will be next week, or even tomorrow.

It seems as though she feels it is appropriate to reach for me when she wants a husband, and then toss me aside when she wants her space. I have to finish detaching. (I have come a LONG WAY).

Do you agree that until she is ready to have a husband ALL of the time, I should not be willing to take her scraps and offer her one some of the time?

Me: 39
W: 38
T-18yrs M-13yrs
2 Girls: 10 & 3
EA BD 5/24/15
Separate Bedrooms 6/12/15
PA BD 7/3/15
Separate Residence 8/8/15