Yeah, I won't be complacent, Wonka. Just starting to feel like the deck is being stacked against me... they are going in on investments together, all the socializing with the OW's circle of people... I suppose it's possible that the faster they jump into all these entanglements while still in the fog of the affair, the quicker things could get heated between them when reality sets in. On the other hand, my W is stubborn... she might slog through the mess just not to be wrong, or in order to not have to disentangle from her after disentangling from me.
She hasn't exactly been blowing up my phone with texts since I've been away, either. Some texts over the weekend, esp Saturday regarding the shopping trip for the kids. And she did try to call me even, but I didn't answer and she wound up texting. But nothing since then. I know I'm not practicing detachment well if I'm thinking this much about her, but... I can't help but wonder what she's thinking over there, if anything about me. I mean, after all, she's got carte blanche now to see the OW at will.
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19
