So progress so far. On the practical side I've booked an appointment next week to speak to the bank about a mortgage so that I can make her the same offer she made to me. I've had to write to my pension trustees to get the surrender value for the period of the M. Apparently this is the new hot topic in D proceedings here. When going though my stuff one of the letters from the trustees back when we got married had a hand written note from her to remind me to update my marriage status. I had a wee twinge of sadness at seeing that.
I also had to contact her about custody over the next few weeks for S9. I had my best DB had on and, after about 6 emails we agreed a schedule and I even managed to get a smiley face from her. Wow, progress indeed.
I need to contact her later as well about S9's birthday and the presents he's asked for. Will keep my Wonka hat on for that exchange.
I'll post more later but right now I'm going to have the biggest plate of my Mum's mince and tatties.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
