The bashing box was a joke we had yesterday. We both did agree that we don't want to continue talking about him as well and focus on us going forward.

She's made it very forceful to him that she wants nothing to do with him. I'm hoping to pursue the NC letter in counseling or Retrouaville.

Transparency is getting stronger as we go. I've put it in as a non-negotiable, and she is responding well. I do plan to put more conditions in as we go on, because I didn't want to scare her away. She responded negatively at the start to what she perceived as conditions, albeit misperceived ones.

MC will be in place as soon as she is back. I made it a non-negotiable, and I have a connection to a pro-marriage MC through another therapist friend of mine. She told me the MC if familiar with/and uses DB,Gottman, 5Ls, etc.

What else am I missing?

M: 8.5 T:10
Me:37 W:34 S:6

Retrouvaille and W moves back- 7/31/15
Piecing - 7/4/15 to present