6. Do not ask for help from family members or friends. Don't discuss private matters with them that would upset your spouse.
Although any discussion of anything with anyone would upset W. I was not looking for help from anyone, just a short explanation of my life - and I poorly thought that it would stay between us. I guess it just puts a crimp in her idea of hiding forever.
Sorry I said it? not really - sorry it spread? probably. sorry it got back to W? not really at this point.
Me-45 W-44 S21, S18, D15 T-27, M-21 BD Jan 2014 PA revealed March 2014 In-house separation - April 2015 I filed - Aug 2015 She moved out Oct 2015