The biggest problem now is that my W didn't make mortgage payments while all this was going on and our home has fallen into forclosure. We've discovered that we can file a Chapter 13 to save it and get caught up on the payments over the next 3-5 years. But guess who will be paying for all that? I'll have to pay for the CH13, the catch up payments and part of the mortgage. All while she enjoys living in our big beautiful home while I am forced to live in a small apartment. Small because I can't afford a nice apartment and paying to save the house that she will be living in. There is over 100K worth of equity in the house but I just don't think it's fair that I am displaced and paying for everything while she continues her plush lifestyle.
Now that we have you on your own thread, what is your lawyer saying to do about that CH13 and the divorce proceedings?
