So I kind of figured I needed to get out and do something so in the late afternoon I took s and we went to the beach and played around for a couple of hours. You are right Asitis that really helped. I had been cleaning my house and that wasn't working, needed fun.
H text me before the beach and just said he would watch S this week. I said ok and that was it.
I did text him today and just said my shoulders were sunburned for the ride that was it. Probably shouldn't have but felt like he contacted me yesterday first so I would reciprocate with today. Good idea or not?
Oh by the way no I did not want him to spend the night!! I would have two months ago but I have changed a little since then and that would not have been good for me. I need to see a few things from him (actions) before I would do that. Like more communication and asking me how my day is and spending more time together.