- you can't control your sister just like you can't control your wife. If your sister wants to spend time with the kids and your wife, that's ip to her.
You are absolutely right, I can't control anybody.
Originally Posted By: Matt777
- she's still your wife. She's still the mother of your children. If you can't trust the kids to be taken care of on her days, who can you trust?
It's not a matter of trust. I trust my kids with her.
My head is swirling with thoughts and emotions right now. There are so many things I want to say, but I can't. I don't want to fight or argue; all I want is to reconcile and repair the broken pieces. But, I'm being a realist with no expectation of that and I trying to follow the steps. Its very hard to find the balance during this entire process. I miss being a family and miss her unconditionally. I wish there was something more I could do, but I cant change her thoughts; this is one thing I know.
