Actually getting a little nervous about this lunch. I am really planning to just STFU and let everyone else do the talking. I'm sure W is uncomfortable about the whole thing, too. She senses a plot afoot for some kind of confrontation. Nothing could be further from the truth, but as anyone who is following my sitch knows, that's what the OW has set her up to believe.

Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers from anyone here inclined to offer them today. Lunch is at 12:30pm eastern time. Thank you...


Me: 46 Her: 41
M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18
3/26 W and I meet OW
BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring
W goes to stay with OW 6/26
NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16
I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19