I don't know why I asked to go with her, I guess my immediate thought is, it's "my" sister (family). I wasn't trying to rub anything in her face, I just wanted to make sure the kids were cared for on one of the days I was leaving, but I can see where things come across as vengeful. This is what my problem has been.
I don't agree with the fact she is visiting "my" family member amidst all the turmoil. These are my blood relatives and when she "walks" out of my life, why does she need to be with people that I lean on and feel comfort from.
As it goes at this point, I don't think I'm going to go this late since the cost for flights is extremely high. Should I even say a word anymore about this? I will probably go to Canada, but "mums the word".
