After I got back from my "weekend getaway" WAW told me she was going to visit my sister for my niece's first birthday. W said she wanted to bring our kids for the birthday party and see my sister which seemed very odd to me. So I kindly asked if I could go as well, of course her response was "I don't want to ride in a car with you for 6 hours". I was cordial and said "That's fine, I'm going to go out of town anyways". Her response, "Where are you going?", my response "Out of town". W immediately went from inquisitive to angry since I wouldn't tell her where I was planning on going. Now begin the back and forth arguing; I kept my cool and did not raise my voice, I just said "You told me 2 weeks ago you didn't care about where I was going or what I'm doing. Why does it matter now?". Her response "I wanted to know where you were going, doesn't that show I care, but now I don't since you are being rude". I eventually told her, I'm going to Las Vegas to get out of town. I'm so confused by all of this.
My plan was to go to Las Vegas for the 4th of July weekend and just have some fun for myself. After talking with a few of my friends, their thought was to hold off for a couple of reasons. #1 - The cost #2 - It could be used against me if the D goes through #3 - It shows that I'm willing to be "frivolous" which may make W upset
My justification revolves around #3, I'm not trying to make her upset, but I'm trying to have some fun for myself. I'm trying to GAL while detaching. I'm not going to Vegas to start a new relationship, but have some fun and meet new people. However, #1 and #2 are my reasons for not going now. Instead I'm going to go to Niagara Falls, CA since its only an hour away and will save me about $800-900 in airfare.
