question, my W has asked me about putting the house up for sale and tonight I am going to tell her I would rather wait until July 15th (our temporary order date), just because I don't want an additional stress factor before then and I would like for D2 to have the most stable environment possible leading up to our separation. She has talked to friends and she talks about her winning or me winning and I was considering saying this after I tell her about wanting to wait for the house;

"I just want you to know I don't look at this as there being winner and losers. I think we either all win; you, D2, and me, or we all lose"

Is that worth saying?


Me: 32 Her: 29
M: 5 T: 11
D2
ILYBINILWY: Jan 15
BD: 2/13/15 (I found out, she didn't tell me)
W filed for D after I confronted OM 5-27-15
Papers served 6-3-15
Temporary Order 7-15-15
W Moved out 7-17-15