Thanks guys - again, it hurts because it doesn't appear she's coming back. She wants the house sold, she wanted to tell the kids, she filed for divorce, she is maintaining the affair and OM, she doesn't initiate contact. All her actions show she has moved on.
So, now as I work on me, any books you guys recommend to help with self-esteem, detaching, etc. I don't think NMMNG really applies to me or my sitch . . .
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23
