Right now/today I am still equating my marriage to her and the life we had as my sole purpose for life and what would make me happy. It's my self worth and I need to do more work to get past that.
Looks like you are making progress to me
Originally Posted By: Ripken8
Lots to work on, but at least I'm finally starting to understand that this pain/longing for ww isn't solely about her and our M. If I truly dig deeper to the why, it's really about me.