Maybe the typos are too difficult to decipher. Here are some of them:

much else was said" should read "not much"

" beat riding and turning while waiting to sleep." Should be beats tosing and turning....

" bizarre if I didn't mention it do Iasked" should read "so I asked....

be inclined to say Ihave not decided what u think, should read "...what I think"


Kay manage should read may manage.


In my edited version that timed out I also outlined we only live a few minutes away from the venue so I didn't leave the kids long and they were asleep.


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together