It felt nice to have a good convo, but hurts because she is so adamant about moving on and while I miss her, I didn't sense any of that from her. Also no remorse or guilt from her. I also know the hurt was because even though I went in with no expectations, I left hoping she would acknowledge or reciprocate she missed having me in her life one way shape or form. That was not the case.
Hey Rip,
Wow, what mixed feelings you must have after today's events. I can't imagine how you must feel right now. But whatever you are feeling I know is normal. You are such a good man and I'm very sorry you have to be going thru this "chit".
I wouldn't worry about how your conversations come across with your W when you are discussing your children or legal matters. Also, I recommend (Yes, it's hard) to GAL, work on yourself and not pursue your W as you wrote. See? You are on the right course. Just take it one step at a time my friend.
P.S. Thank you for the kind post in my thread. I replied there.
Chin up and keep the PMA.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
