Thanks Asitis. I very much appreciate your insight.
People on this board say that one thing won't make or break whether there's a chance at reconciliation but I have a feeling that I stepped in some [censored] in the past two weeks by calling my W and emailing her in the same 48 hour period - both of which were about creating a face to face meeting. At one point during my call I got a bit emotional which might have also been a turn off as well.
I thought I was getting information right from the horse's mouth when her cousin said, "She wants you to call her if you want to work on the M." She might have just been telling him that there was no way she was going to be the one to make the call, not that she was interested in working on things herself. Who knows. The reply I got was certainly not one that made me think that she was anything but happy where she was in her life without me.
Time to re-read DR and keep working on detaching.
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17