You have the chance to turn the dynamics around and now is the perfect time. You can use this opportunity to cause her to think you may be thinking of dumping her. By not staying with her and not have a R talk, and leaving her there.......that will get her attention more than anything you could do at the moment.
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Didn't see this post until I'd already gone back to the hotel
You asked what you needed to do. You still could have left the hotel. Instead, you hung around to be the backboard for her pi$$ed attitude, have breakfast with her, go for a walk with her, and have a R talk with her. Why are you choosing to do the opposite of what you need to do?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
