Thanks, Heather. It was awesome that we went out and had a good time. I just talked with my mom. She had no idea that even happened. She said we all seemed so happy at the dinner afterwards.
Bea... He certainly does not get it! And yes, it would be so much easier to just live totally separate lives.
Bright, Yeah- I felt bad for s18. It was tough to see him have to deal with that. The good thing is, he seemed great not too long after, and has been in a really good mood since. He is having lots of fun with his friends right now. And he and d14 are getting along so well... I savor the moments!
Thanks, job. You certainly get this whole thing, and I appreciate you sticking by me and helping me through.
Ellie- I agree. Right now, I'm letting the chips fall where they may. Once the dust settles, the kids can start from there. Now, they are just figuring things out and still pretty raw. Congrats to your son! That's great, and he had an awesome mom who had his back!
Thanks so much all of you guys. You are so insightful and it means a lot to me to hear from you. I think this guy is so far gone. It makes me lose hope of him ever finding his way back to reality and being accountable. I think that's at least what my kids are looking for (?).
