Nice to have you back.;-) I'm sorry the crazy train has sped up again.
I'm sure Forever will be by soon.
This MLC process is very unpredictable and unfair. It sounds like you are getting your life in order. It's only a matter of time before this awfulness passes.
It's hard to imagine after all this time and admittedly living with the OM, that she would have any right to spousal. And, you have consistent documented investment in the house while she lives in another home... So I'm thinking that equity could be argued as yours with a decent atty at the helm.
Just my two cents.
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
